himself took us to New Zealand twice, at interviews with New Zealand house, they said to me: Mrs Kenny, we are not worried about you, but we are very worried about your husband. Such clever young men!! -- Himself said h e thought it would be England in the sun ..not sure what he meant?? We returned back, then moved to this new city and then he went walk about, never to be seen again. Two elder children went to Uni, without his blessings, and two younger ones were very traumatised. Took me a while to get them back into life, but their values shifted dramatically after that. This one decided /sadly as he was possibly the most talented of my children/ nothing was worth while, and he would never work, as all things disappeared anyway.