There is no way (until Lord Jesus died for our sins) to remove the hurt and pain, for holding God responsible, for our failures (choices).

Adam decided to blame God and not take responsibility of any action on his part.
Adam said, "It was the woman that you gave me."
Eve decided to blame the serpent and not take responsibility on any action on her part.
She said, "It was the serpent, he beguiled me."
The serpent was silent and said, "nothing when punished" because he was guilty!

God punished the serpent to low estate and on his belly he should go, but, he did rise again later in scriptures.

Adam lied to God.
He brought the curse into this earth.
Eve transgressed, because Adam lied to God, for he was not deceived.
Adam was banished from the garden and Eve choose to go with him.
That is a love story from God to you.